My Blogfam I'm so so sorry for not updating my blog. I have been very busy with school work, tests, assignments and what not. I'm not complaining sha. Solomonsydelle i have updated o come and read.
So to the gist of the day, i know you guys would be like whats up with the title oya make una remove una minds from gutter jo,LOL. Ok seriously this thing has been bothering me for a while and i couldn't discuss it with anyone so i decided to share with my blogfam i might get the answer.
Abeg people what is the pleasure in kissing? Yes i have never been kissed sue me.lol
Ok i'm doing the LDR thingy so how do you guys expect me to be kissed ehn?? I have always been wondering what it is like to be kissed, as in how does someone feel after and during the kiss?
I met my BF online tho a friend of mine knows him and hooked us up, those who have read my blog from beginning would know what I'm talking about. We haven't met and its like a year now since we starting going out. Throughout my last relationship too i never got kissed, it was LDR too tho we meet whenever i go to 9ja which is once in a year. I guess this explains it all why i have never been kissed.
What worries me most is i don't think i can kiss anyone or i might have problem when i have my first kiss because I'm a neat freak plus i can't stand bad breath, i can't imagine licking someone's spit abi is that not what kissing is all about? Abi is it licking of tongues? Abeg make una tel me so i would know what i would be expecting. I just hope my BF doesn't get angry with me sha because all his talk is when he would kiss me especially as i told him i have never been kissed.
This post is getting longer but i cant leave without saying this, my ex called me some days back and he was like we should get back together but i told him nope we can only be friends,not knowing that he got engaged days back before he called me, imagine the shock i got when i heard the news. I was pissed off, sent him a text congratulating him so i could here his own side of the story which he later called me pretending he doesn't know what i was talking about, felt like slapping the idiot through the phone. Anyway he denied completely but i heard the story from a reliable source. Whatever the case might be its his problem, what pissed me off was the way he played with my intelligence. I sha gave him strong warning.
Abeg my brothers and sisters don't just read and go, please make una answer me small. I know most people on blogsville have been kissed so don't tell me you have never been kissed oo...lol
I wish you all a great Easter weekend.
Xx
hmmm the whole kissing thing is somewhat a mystery i cant give u proper advice until i have been kissed properly..(.mchewwwwww) anyhow have a nice weekend!! && ive seen mynes baby, shes SO cute!
ReplyDeleteKissing.. Noone can perfectly describe it to you 'cause everyone has their experience.Thing is if you are really in to the person,you'd quickly forget you're a clean freak,I tell you!
ReplyDeletePlease forget the Ex, he wants attention and wonders what's up with you,How come you're having fun without him in your life.just plain conceit.
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I agree wit 2cute4u...kissin is nt sumtn u do wen ure thinkin, u move wit d spur of d moment, so spit doesnt feel lik spit. I dnt even hv any memory of spit-lickin uno..u shld try it out asap, lickin of tongues is rly coooool, it has dis chillin feelin. Nyz, jst let ur boo b in charge weneva d action starts.
ReplyDeletehmmnnn..d X-factor, I dunno wat we r alwys lookin 4
loool licking whos pit? lmao! Yep as said, its a naural thing,its starge ..for only those who've experienced it can decipher it.
ReplyDeleteahn ahn licking tongues ke?:P @tolu
strange*
ReplyDeletebabe, wait till he kisses you..then that's all you'd wanna do all day..lol..when you kiss someone u like, the last thing on ur mind is the analysing the biology or physics of kisses cos it's only the chemistry that'll matter..lol
ReplyDeletelovely holidays to u!
Juanita...they call it french kiss!!
ReplyDeleteI ddnt invent it, d french did
Shorty, sorry that was a joke I played. No baby yet andn that is not Atala, hehehe.
ReplyDeleteAs for kissing, I think it is something you have to experience yourself. It is sensual and very very intimate. You'll forget about the reserve or any underlying disgust. Like any other thing sexual, it has to be with the person you're attracted to or it won't work. Also practice makes perfect.
I DNT KISS AND TELL. LOL. SERIOUSLY,U DNT NOTICE THE SPIT XCEPT IF UR PARTNER IS A BAD KISSER THEN U'L HATE THE ACT OF KISSING.
ReplyDeleteI dnt think there's one way to describe it...it varies from person to person. All I can tell u is, try not to over analysis, over think and worry co when u do u dnt get the full experience of it. Jst be urself let ur senses guide ur movement,jst dnt drink too much spit sha...lol
ReplyDeleteKissing is great if both of una sabi kiss otherwise hmmmm.....
ReplyDeleteKissing is something that comes spontaneously.You don't plan it.When you do,it becomes awkward.Go with the moment,I'm sure you'd do fine and please just relax!its no big deal.
ReplyDeleteYour Ex?Geez..Forget him already!He's stale news..
Onosetale: Hope i would be kissed properly o!
ReplyDelete2cute4u: Don't mind that ex jare, sure would check the link.
Tolu Akanni: Bobo would surely be in charge.
Jaunita: Abi o my sister.
Histreasure: Hmmn this one pass my power o.lol
Myne: Chei! you really got me but you're forgiven.lol
Fragilelooks: I'm praying hard for a good kisser.
Miss Enigma: Babe you making it sound disgusting.lol
Nice Anon: Otherwise what?talk na.lol
Sosexy: Ex has been forgotten since..
lool even on tv
ReplyDeletethe short dry one looks sexier than a french kiss
and bliv me, it is
I pray u get a good kisser hehe
nd become a gud kisser too lol
am so silly yeah?
xo
my first kiss was horrible eh, but the second one was much better. kissed only two guys sha.so im not really and expert.
ReplyDeleteLMAO@ licking spit...i guessss.it wil come naturally to you when it happens..you wont be concious of swallowing the other person's saliva
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