Thanks to everyone who commented on my last post. I really appreciated it.
I personally believe a little change in a relationship doesn't hurt. I mean you don't try to change someone you are in a rship with but I believe if that person really cares about u, the person will make effort to change definitely not completely but just a bit. Even if the person doesn't change the effort alone counts, but when the person doesn't even make any effort then that's a different story entirely. (I'm i making sense?)
Anyway, the last post was about me and the BF, there is a certain something he does which I don't like but he says that's how he is and can't say if he can change. But I believe he can if he wants to, because I think I can change for him if it was vice-versa. I'm not asking him to change completely but he can at least reduce the rate at which he does it, I mean there is something called compromise. Well that's that for now and honestly I'm mad at him.
I don't want to go in depth about this issue because it gives me headache honestly, and I have a lot on my plate right now. Having my midterms this week, so much studying to do. Hopefully by next week I'll be on a week break, I really can't wait. Nothing seems right again, I'm a confused person right now. Sigh.
My pipo thats all I have now. Hopefully I'll be back with a good post by the weekend. You all should have a nice week.
Xx
PS: I promised to put up a post about me and the BF but honestly I don't think I'll be able to do it anymore because I'm not feeling the whole 'thing' now. I'm really sorry if I've disappointed anyone, don't blame me blame him....LOL
Love y'all
I really do hope things work out, but in the end peace of mind and happiness are more important. All the best with the mid-terms.
ReplyDeletewell, it is a good thing you are knowing he can't change or rather is not willing to change as far as that specific unnamed behavior goes. so two alternatives really, if you cant live with it walk away
ReplyDeleteSometimes, just sometimes, it takes a little more patience to make something change. In due time, he will realize that love is about compromise. you'll be fine honey, you will.
ReplyDeleteFeel better love....good luck on ur midterms!
ReplyDeleteGoodluck with ur midterms! And hang in there...change isn't easy :)
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